Kindness is the daily expression of love, says Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche

(Prologue: I’ve got first-hand experience that a real understanding of the laws of karma can substantially change our lives for the better. I created this weblog to share information and personal experience with others. May it be of benefit!)

For me, it’s a delicious juxtaposition when Valentine’s Day + the Tibetan New Year fall on the same day as they have this year on February 14, 2010.

What follows are my notes of Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche’s address to his international Shambhala Buddhist sangha at 13h00 EST today.

Let me stress that this is merely what I heard — not necessarily an absolutely precise transcription of what was said. But I believe it’s close enough to share its inspiring message.

The words in {   } are my interpretation only. Words in (  ) are from Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, the Sakyong’s father.

  • Courage and effort are part of our {Shambhala Buddhist} tradition;
  • {By contrast} It’s easy to fall asleep {not being awake;  just sleepwalking through life by being caught up in habitual patterns etc.} and hope that it all gets better;
  • {It takes courage to} take responsibility for our own thoughts and projections;
  • Don’t need to give into hate. Must have the power and maturity to express our love. Kindness will save our mind and planet;
  • Love is the natural outpouring {on the relative or conventional plane} of our basic goodness {on the ultimate or absolute plane}. It’s a feeling of offering.
    • (“The closest analogy I can think of at this point is the general basic goodness of drinking a glass of ice water.” Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche; paras 4 + 10, please click here);
  • (Love) liberates us from a mind that is stuck in just wanting;
  • Ability to love brings peace and soothes others;
  • Sometimes we are foolish and overwhelmed and possessed by wanting more. We become unhappy and wanting creates pain for others.
  • Kindness = not struggling with our selves. Kindness is not a ceremony but a simple human exchange;
  • Love is powerful emotion. Kindness is the daily [SMR actually said “more common and practical] expression of love. This is a viable path. When we decide that love is our path, it’s a very powerful moment;
  • As Shambhala warriors, we are being challenged by wanting to hate; this is where we have to remember our tradition of courage; if we have something {good} to offer, we must demonstrate that;
    • (“The whole Shambhala training process is connected with how to manifest, so that people can do things without deception.” Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche; para 2)
  • Not continously driven and wanting;
  • Meditation has shown us that through kindness we can stop torturing ourselves by thinking that there just one more thing that we need to be happy;
  • So take charge of your attitude {rather than just being driven by negative thoughts that are generated by your mind}. If we decide we want to be awake, we can. Otherwise we’ll sleepwalk throughout our life.
  • Awake = the attitude that any part of our life is an opportunity to be awake and good;
  • When things become difficult, see this as part of {what is being generated by our} mind;
  • Look at our life as the possibility of enlightenment itself;
  • If we have positive and strong attitude, then our home life can be our path to enlightenment;
    • (“As they say, charity begins at home.” Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche; para 2)
  • Home is neutral. It’s up to us to decide whether it will be positive or negative. This is the notion of the householder living an awakened life rather than hiding in our life. On the premise that home can be the basis of goodness, then we can move into the world with this attitude.

The complete address can be found here.

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2 Responses

  1. Pat Says:

    Thanks for your valuable insights and wisdom Maggie!

  2. Plaid Says:

    Dear Maggie – really enjoyed reading this post – it is always helpful to be reminded about what really matters. It is ever so easy to get sidetracked by all the busyness in our lives, and isn’t it so simple to remember how important kindness can be especially in the home life, (sometimes the most challenging space in which to manifest compassion for others). -Plaid

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